Underwhelming roommate situation

2022.01.19 20:31 florecillas Underwhelming roommate situation

Hello! I was hoping someone would give me their insight on this situation since I'm just really overwhelmed.
I have been sharing apartment since I was 18, and I'm 24 now, but I have never felt this way.
We are four girls (2 girls are 20F, 23F, 24F). Since I came here I felt like I had no privacy whatsoever, they would knock on my door all the time, even when I was sleeping, ask me weird questions about my private life, call me when I was outside... I felt really underwhelmed so I kind of told them it was too much and it stopped.
Since then things have been cold. And I feel like they do bad things to me on purpose, like they use all the hot water before it is my turn to take a shower, never let me use the washing machine, it is always busy, I have to go to do my laundry to self-service launderette, which is so much work and money. I tried to talk to them about it, but do nothing, once I told one of them that their clothes had been inside the washing machine for days and I needed to use it, she said oh okay I will empty it for you, she did that at 1 am and the next morning she put it again claiming she left it empty but I never used it.
When 1 girl leaves for an extended period of time (4 days or so) we always clean her part, however, last week I left on friday and got back today (Wednesday) and I found the trash so full of things, before I left I cleaned my part and took out my trash, but this week it was my turn to take out the trash, I just feel it is unfair to clean this mess they made, I feel like they made this on purpose honestly, it is really nasty and smells really bad. I know they are expecting me to take it out, but I don't think it's fair. I'm not sure if in doing it right, I'm aware this week it was my turn to do take the trash out, but I wasn't here, so it's not even mine .
TL;DR I feel really overwhelmed in a shared apartment. I feel like my roommates are taking advantage of me.
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Hi all, we are likely to be having children in the next couple years. I’m well aware you can get all the nutrients from a vegan diet but let’s be honest, eating the right diet takes a lot of work. I rather not get into a debate about effort involved as I’m well aware a child is the single most important thing for a parent but I want to be pragmatic as a human that often doesn’t treat their body as well as they should diet wise. I’m well versed in nutrition, but despite being vegan 5 years I’m still of the opinion it’s easier to get your nutrients from meat. My question is…who has raised their child on a vegan diet, can you answer honestly if everything was planned constantly or do you feel you slipped up and may have not provided the correct amount of nutrients from time to time. I’d be very interested in a non judgmental discussion as to whether you have experienced any problems through the child rearing process. Ps. I’m in the middle of looking at studies but Annecdotes and discussions are helpful.
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2022.01.19 20:31 Yohlo Advice for 3D Printer Enclosure

Hi all,
I have an Ender 3v2 that I currently have stuck in an office closet, but am wanting to bring it out and out it on top of a spare desk I have in the office. This is my current plan for an enclosure, and wanted to see if anyone had some advice or if there's anything I'm missing before I just build a box to lock my printer in.
For the base of the enclosure, I was thinking about this IKEA cabinet base: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/sektion-base-cabinet-frame-white-90265388/
with this on top: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/utrusta-shelf-white-00265533/

Using these items for the door:
door: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/haeggeby-door-white-30267187/
hinges: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/utrusta-hinge-20204647/
push opener: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/utrusta-push-opener-80230224/
(I will cut also 12x16 hole in the IKEA door and install a pane of glass for visibility)

For intake, I might space the door or drill holes on the side walls near the bottom of the enclosure.

Inside, I'll have:
thermometer: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/utrusta-push-opener-80230224/
LED spotlights: https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/halvklart-led-cabinet-spotlight-white-90463623/
fire-retardant sound panels: https://www.amazon.com/Arrowzoom-Pieces-Acoustic-Soundproofing-Insulation/dp/B079SZJ2PG
and a PC fan drilled into the top for exhaust: https://www.amazon.com/quiet-BL046-WINGS-Max-1500RPM-Cooling/dp/B00ECWKD6I and I have an air purifier in the office that I already run on a schedule
I also already have an rpi with octoprint set up.

Any advice or anything I'm missing to make a decent, safe enclosure?
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2022.01.19 20:31 The_Grumpy_1 List of strings an prints them as columns

Hi all,
I have this coding challenge and I have hit a brick wall:

Write a function that takes a list of strings an prints them as columns, with a single space between the columns eg: columns(["Write","good","code","every","day"]) gets printed as: W g c e d r o o v a i o d e y t d e r e y 
I have tried several things, I can get the either get the first letters of each word to print correctly but not the rest or get everything printed vertically. I found this post on SO but it did not work. As the list is uneven, I also ran into out of index errors when trying iterate and print over the list itself.

I am not allowed to use libraries such as itertools's zip_longest - which I did initially and got racked over the coals.
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2022.01.19 20:31 ThrowAway77124579 Ex(26) lied to me(F22) about the reason for the breakup and then asked for my advice on his new girlfriend

So I dated a guy long-distance (I’m in North America and he’s in Europe) for about 6 months. We had been close friends for about 6 months prior to getting together. I really liked him and I felt like we really clicked.
When he broke up with me it was pretty much out of nowhere. I was obviously really upset and asked him why he wanted to break up, his only reason was that he didn’t want a long-distance relationship. He had recently started spending a lot of time chatting with another girl(F27). I asked him if he had feelings for her and he told me he didn’t. We still continued to be friends after this.
About 4 months passed and I felt like I had completely gotten over the breakup. One night me and the ex were talking and he told me he had feelings for that girl he had been talking to when we broke up and asked my opinion on whether he should ask her out. I got really upset by this because if he asked her out then he’d be starting another long-distance relationship which means he had lied about why he wanted to break up with me. When I confronted him about this he said the actual reason he had broken up with me was because he didn’t love me anymore. He said he thought he told me that was the reason at the time of the breakup.
He ended up going to bed after the discussion and the next day I asked if he wanted my advice on whether he should ask out that girl. He said he did. I told him that if he did have an issue with the long-distance with us then he'd have the same issues with the long-distance with the girl. That he wasn't in a financial position to move to the girl's country and the girl he wanted to ask out probably won't learn a new language to move to where he lives (about 50% of the population speaks English where he lives so learning the language wouldn't be mandatory but it would make it a lot harder for her to live there). I honestly don't have any issue with the girl or my ex moving on. The girl didn't know we dated and I have no proof he tried to get with her while he was with me other than him spending time with her around our break up. I also absolutely do not want to get back together with him. I wasn't trying to sabotage his new relationship, I just felt like he wasn't thinking long term about this new girl as every time I asked him to clarify how this relationship could work he just said that "they clicked really well". Even though I felt hurt, I didn't want him to also get hurt.
After telling him my advice to not get with her if he didn't have a plan to how it would work he got really annoyed with me and called me a bad friend and then went to bed. I dm'ed him during the night and explained that I wasn't trying to hurt him, I was just trying to get him to think logically about how the relationship would work. He dm'ed me back the next day apologizing and saying he now understood that I was just trying to help.
We talked about it one last time and I told him that I didn't really want to hear about her if he did get with her. I was hurting from him lying about why he didn't want to be with me and felt pretty worthless at the time. He said he understood why I wouldn't want to talk about it but now, every so often he will complain that he can't talk about her with me. He says stuff like "I want to talk to my friends about what makes me happy and girl makes me happy".
Did I do something wrong here? If I sound like an unreasonable and jealous ex then please call me out. I'm always up for self-reflection and being better and I'm not afraid to admit I may have been in the wrong by giving him that advice. Having an outside opinion on whether my advice was reasonable would be really helpful. I'd also like to know if I am reasonable in feeling hurt by his actions. I felt really hurt by him breaking up out of nowhere and finding out he lied about why he wanted to break up but I can understand the lie if he was just trying to protect my feelings. Was he right to lie and was him asking my opinions on a new girlfriend reasonable?
Thanks so much for any advice!
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2022.01.19 20:31 DownwindAtDawn 2 New Tires on Front Rather than Back?

I have a 19’ Honda Accord Hybrid. The FR tire was slashed, so I asked the dealer to please replace both front tires. The tires are all identical size / model / brand.
I asked the dealer if they were going to put the new tires on the rear, and rotate the older tires (26k miles) to the front of the Honda.
I always understood that if you had to replace two tires, the set with the best tread (like new tires) should be rotated or placed in the rear. The lower, older, tread tires rotated to the front.
The dealer said that “The Honda car is lighter in the front and so the new tires should go in the front.” This is not an EV, but Hybrid. I agreed as I have no reason to disagree but it sounded odd to me.
Now I need to replace both front tires on my 19” Chevrolet Suburban LT (2WD). The dealer said the new tires should be installed in the rear, and the rear tires with lower tread, be rotated to the front. The opposite of what the Honda service department said.
Is their a hard and fast rule for this, or is this more of a per-type of car rule?
Both sets are replacement OEM tires. All weather. “Energy Saver”. Rarely snow driven on either car. Nothing special about the tires on either car. OEM to OEM replacements.
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2022.01.19 20:31 AppropriateMention6 Is it ok to put your puppy in their crate at bedtime or should they always go in on their own?

Sometimes my puppy (8 months old but has slept in a crate since 8 weeks and is comfortable with it) heads toward the crate at bedtime but then just stands at the door or seems to want to sniff around the bedroom rather than going in. We play crate games during the day and she responds to "go in your crate" but only if she expects there's a treat in the offing.
When it's late I just want to get to bed so I gently place her in there and close the door. She settles immediately.
Is this ok or is it important that the puppy always walk in on their own?
Also, do you always give them a treat when they go in before bed?
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