2021.09.28 03:45 ryguy1512 25 Year old Application Engineer looking to change careers to sports related work
I've been working as an HVAC application engineer for over 2 years now for a company that does not really have a career plan for me to move up to eventually becoming an outside salesman who makes the big bucks. They just told me today they are promoting someone else before me in our company to outside sales who has only been at the company for far shorter and was supposed to take over my responsibilities.
I don't want to be quick to make a decision and quit but this isn't the first time they have kind of hoed me after telling me I'm an integral part of a small 15 person company. It's to the point it has effected my mental health negatively.
I would love to love at other options, I am absolutely in love with sports and would love for some job options in the sports world that some of you guys may think would be a more enjoyable and stable.
Thanks in advance!
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2021.09.28 03:45 Bennett_Barreca Black Tea Boba with Blackberry and Mango bubbles :)
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2021.09.28 03:45 letsbekindfriends David Klein Organic Chemistry 4th edition + solutions DM me if you need it
2021.09.28 03:45 theenigmaticlover Being social has always been painful for me and now I know why.
TL;DR at the bottom
I will do my best to keep this short. So essentially being around a lot of people, making friends, and coming off as an approachable person has always been.. extremely difficult for me. (To say the least) It's not because of a lot of the reasons I see talked about or posted about on here or in real life. I can usually hold a decent conversation. I love talking to people I don't know well or complete strangers. Hell I did competitive public speech all throughout high school. But now that I'm about to enter my early twenties and be fully responsible for myself I can't help but notice a reoccurring theme in my life.
I realized this when I talked to one of the few friends that I have (and I mean out of like maybe 4 friends I have on my best days). The conversation went something like this.
Her: Yeah, I seem to attract a lot of friends but no boyfriend. No matter what I do.
Me: You attract friends?
Her: Yeah. Ever since I was younger people just come into my life and want to be friends with me.
Me: I don't know what you're talking about. The only reason I ever have people to talk to is if I actively seek them out and force a relationship. That's the main reason we're friends now actually (Not the exact words but very similar)
This conversation confused me to the very core of my being for no reason. No reason at all. What my friend said was easily understandable. I understood how to interpret what she was explaining but because I've never experienced anything similar it was almost if she had spoken a foreign language. What did she mean people approached her? What did she mean she never had force people to talk to her. To be in her presence until they decided if they wanted to stay and be friends or leave? I was absolutely dumbfounded.
But why I am so lost?
I have always known from the beginning that I was more of a lone shark/loner. It was a weird experience growing up and existing as I am. I have always eaten, worked, studied, thought, and had fun by myself, unless I found the energy to walk into people's lives asked them to please let me stay. (Metaphorically for the most part but sometimes actually.) Which did not align with my extrovertedness. I love talking with people. I do not fear social interaction. I just don't actively seek it out. I also got tired of being in places with a lot of people which lead me to realize I much more introverted then I realized.
So my adolescent life was just a long and painful experience punctuated with a few good memories. (I found my long term boyfriend for example). Was I mentally stable during it? Absolutely not which I know played a determining role in every facet of my life.
Which brings us to my present. As a college student about to begin a new decade in my life, nothing seems to have changed about me or my life.
The conversation with my friend forced me to accept that I am like this because of a reason.
I push people away, I make myself emotionally unavailable, I stress myself out, I put a strain on my relationship, I overthink beyond dangerous territory, and am simply apathetic to things most people around me (yes, I know they are not a representative of reality) seem to have the most energy for because I have anxiety and don't understand the point of relaxation.
I have places in my life that I need to be for financial and mental reasons. Being stuck in the present makes me resentful and pained even tho this is a time in my life that I'll never get back.
So, long story made long for no reason. People don't talk to me because I emanate a toxic amount of bad energy. I don't have food social skills because I'm too tired from life to be social. And yes, I am in therapy. It's just.. been a long journey.
I sincerely apologize for the long read for anyone who reads the whole thing. I didn't intend for this to become a book.
TL;DR Thinks to who I am as a person I have been stuck between having good social skills and mind destroying loneliness because of anxiety.
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2021.09.28 03:45 sasha_man123 US soldiers wade through the unforgiving nature of Vietnam. Date unknown. [1200 x 900]
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2021.09.28 03:45 letzmakeadeal Should I go with my heart (Jeep) or my head (Honda)?
I’m looking to buy a slightly used car and I’ve got a few things helping me narrow down my decision. I want a small SUV - I live in a major city so it’s got to be easy enough to park on the street, and I don’t need a luxury brand because I don’t want to worry too much about what will happen to it. Apple CarPlay and leather seats are my two must-haves. I’ve looked at soooo many models and I’m down to two.
I absolutely love the Jeep Compass. My first car was a Grand Cherokee and this is like a mini, city-friendly version. I’ve heard complaints about the weak 4-cylinder engine. To be honest, I don’t know if I need a super powerful car. My concern is the reliability - I keep seeing mixed reviews about that and I don’t want to be stuck with it in the shop all the time. Is it really that bad?
My other choice is the Honda HR-V. It’s also not known for its powerful engine, but it is large enough to be an upgrade from my Civic coupe. Having owned a Honda for 7 years, it is pretty amazing to never have to repair anything other than maintenance-related things.
I’m super torn because I love the size of both, but I love the look of the Jeep more. Do I go with my heart or my head here?
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2021.09.28 03:45 JK-Tech lançei a demo da alfa do meu jogo
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2021.09.28 03:45 Texian_Fusilier Coraline Halloween Decorations.
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2021.09.28 03:45 pynergy1 Why is it impossible to find golf vods. I just want to watch Ryder cup without having to be off from work on certain days... ILL PAY, NBC, COME ON
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2021.09.28 03:45 Noooooo129746 I wear femininity like a cheap suit....
This is purely a venting post because I don't have anyone in my life to talk about this. Growing up I was both lucky and unlucky to be raised in isolation with my only form of media being video games and cartoons. Obviously I had to make up the socializing down the line, but I really missed whatever gets ingrained into women at that age.
I never felt a desire to look good, only to be good. I always wanted to be like the protags in my games and shows, and their gender didn't even matter. I just saw them as role models because they were the good guys. I did have Barbies and an easy bake but it never felt like it was the only shoe I was able to fit. It never felt like something inherent to me. I felt like I could be anyone I wanted.
Going through puberty really sucked because that shift rocked my world and even as a twenty-something it's like I haven't recovered. I am effeminate only when I'm kind of required to be. Like I don't want to be seen as sick or mentally ill so I still shave everything even though it fkng sucks, but everything else completely missed me.
I can't put on much makeup without looking like a total clown, I can't wear really effeminate clothing without feeling silly and the only way I don't feel silly is the androgynous route. I love florals and pastels, but as a button up over some jeans rather than like a blouse or a dress. Everything else feels like a clown suit like look at me in this ultra tight, thin, shitty fabric aren't I so cute.
But it doesn't make me feel gender dysmorphic or anything I just always felt best presenting myself like this. I still see myself as very feminine in nature and sexuality, but I just don't present in a feminine way and I wish that wasn't the minority.
I don't feel confused or anything but I do feel somewhat alone. It feels silly to think so hard on my outward appearance and behavior without having to struggle with gender or sexual identity. I feel non conventional but I also feel like a poser in spaces for other people that don't conform to gender stereotypes.
Thank you all.
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2021.09.28 03:45 clip_mirror_bot Wet my pants
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2021.09.28 03:45 jackdiba How to river kayak without friends?
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2021.09.28 03:45 amnesiac7 Trump officials were 'manipulating the intelligence' on white supremacy — and it made Jan 6 worse: DHS whistleblower
2021.09.28 03:45 luke_liao Baby Keem says the vinyl for The Melodic Blue and DIE FOR MY BITCH are in the works
2021.09.28 03:45 RemoteConcept936 LOW INTERVIEW SCORE 😓
Just got my interview results back for the local inside wiremen apprenticeship at local 332 Santa Clara , 73.5 😓😓😓 what are the chances of getting hired with a trash score like this? I thought the interview went so well, this is really heartbreaking , I worked hard to pass the test and everything and now I feel like it’s for nothing , will I be on this waitlist for 2 freakin years before being able to get into an apprenticeship? Should I just apply elsewhere and have to do this whole process all over again ? 😓
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2021.09.28 03:45 mclokyle243 Vehicles that should get the Benny’s treatment: Imponte Beater Dukes.
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2021.09.28 03:45 My_name_is_Bot Oklahoma Prep Football Poll - Associated Press
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2021.09.28 03:45 sbpotdbot Brag and Bitch - 9/28/21 (Tuesday)
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2021.09.28 03:45 HASTURGOD Query confusion
Trying to write a query that shows loans and Pre-Approvals Withdrawn[Dates.WITHDRAWN_DATE] before initial disclosures[dates.init_disclosure_date] are sent.
Not sure whether to use an IF or CASE WHEN statement or any better suggestions.
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